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Tom and I met in the spring of
1994, during a time I had sworn
off men.
Though we were both from the east
coast- Tom from Maryland and I from
Massachusetts, we met in Indiana.
I was shopping at a home improvement
store he worked at, and he followed
me around like a puppy dog asking
me if I needed any help, could he
show me where this or that was,
etc. He even offered to deliver
the large items I bought for free
(little did I know he just wanted
my address so he could ask me out).
He stayed over at work just to help
me, and after I checked out, offered
to help me carry my things to the
car. After he loaded them up, he
stood there with such a cute look
on his face, I asked him if he would
like to go out for coffee. Before
our first date, I wouldn't let him
meet my boys, but made sure he met
my pet collie. I wanted to see how
he was with animals and if my dog
liked him as dogs see past the charades
and into the soul. Cass adored him
and Tom didn't care that he had
dog hair on his dress clothes from
Cass jumping in his lap - OK, I
encouraged Cass to do it :) Coffee
turned into dinners, gifts were
soon to follow, as were weekends
away and before I knew it, he had
captured my heart. Soon after, I
let him meet the boys and I met
his son, Chris. They now look to
him as a father and he regards them
as his sons. He told me he would
do everything he possibly could
to make my dreams come true and
he has.
After a long engagement, we were
married on December 4,1998.
The Bride
The Bridal Party
Top row: Lisa
- maid of honor, Mike (my twin brother)
- best man, Tom - the lucky groom
:) and Mike (Tom's friend) - Groomsman
Second row:
My father, Michelle - the blushing
bride :), and Robin (my friend) -
bridesmaid
Bottom row:
Blair (Lisa's daughter)- jr. bridesmaid,
Austin (our son)- ring bearer , Brandon
(our son) - groomsman, ushers (our
sons) - Justin and Chris and Elizabeth
(Robin's daughter) -flower girl
To see more wedding
photos and family photos click button
below.
Our
Dreams
I wanted to raise and show collies.
A well bred collie is the perfect
family pet, possessing beauty, grace
, intelligence, a sincere devotion
for their family and an innate desire
to please. They can also be trusted
with animals of all types as well
as infants. I had owned several
pet collies before and though my
children and I loved them dearly,
I was brought to the realization
that there were some health problems
in the breed (as in every breed)
that needed to be addressed. I had
attended college previously with
the hopes of becoming a vet, though
family commitments prevented me
from attending graduate school,
the pre-vet studies had given me
the knowledge needed to embark on
a sound breeding program. I had
searched for a foundation bitch
while in college but got discouraged
at what I found. After Tom and I
met, I continued my search for a
foundation bitch that was from an
extremely sound background as well
as being of excellent health herself,
Even though she did not have to
be show herself, she needed to have
few faults, of which were easily
bred out. She needed to be line
bred, off of dogs that neither had,
nor produced major health problems.
She had to have movement, as structure
can be the most difficult to correct,
as well as a superb temperament.
We found Misty at Hollyoak Kennel.
She was everything we had hoped
for and more. We later purchased
Diamond for a foundation as well
from Hollyoak, who also provided
a solid foundation for our kennel-
Willowynd Collies.
Lilah's guidance and mentoring in
the beginning, coupled with my education
made it possible to achieve my dream
of producing quality, health, intelligence
and sound temperaments capable of
competing in the confirmation ring,
the obedience ring and the agility
ring, as well as being the perfect
therapy dog and companion with carefully
planned, limited breeding. Thank
you Lilah.
Though I am unable to show the
dogs myself after an auto accident
left permanent injury, we will continue
to send dogs out with a confirmation
handler. Meanwhile, we look forward
to putting obedience titles on the
current dogs and future pups. One
of my sons is interested in obedience,
and wants to take them in the ring.
We have already taken the first
step and put CPC titles on 2 of
the dogs recently.
Tom's dreams were simple. He wanted
to have a loving family, own a nice
home in the country (as did I) and
own his own business. I have 3 boys
from my previous marriage, and though
it wasn't always easy in the beginning,
we grew into a loving family. Our
boys are all teens now, and on the
verge of adulthood, and Tom has
helped mold them into responsible,
well adjusted young men who I am
very proud of. Our oldest, Brandon,
is planning on following in his
dad's footsteps (Tom is a sergeant
in the Army), and joining the Army
reserves while going to college
for Radiation Tech. Our middle son,
Justin, is interested in becoming
a chef and opening his own restaurant.
Our youngest, Austin, wants to become
an airplane mechanic.
We had bought our new home soon
after we met, though it was quite
basic, we have been making improvements
on it ever since. Tom is quite skilled
at building and has taught the boys
all he knows. They installed all
the chain link for the kennel runs
and the puppy pen, built the kennel
building, decks, refinished drywall
in the house, put up moldings and
arches and built solid wood doors,
installed hardwood flooring in the
main areas of the house (easier
to keep up with many dogs in the
house), and will be installing ceramic
tile flooring and remodeling the
kitchen and master bath.
Tom wants to own his own business
one day and he is perfectly suited
for it with his astute business
sense. He has an extensive background
in operations and management, combined
with his formal education, and a
solid sales background. Currently
he is the manager of a large store.
When we both retire, we want to
buy an RV and travel all over the
United States and Canada with the
dogs, attending dog shows along
the way. Yes, we will become your
worst nightmare on the road...LOL.
We plan to come home only to whelp
and raise the babies.
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Always
is a part of us
This photo of the
past
Touches hearts forever
The sentiments will
last
Each special dream
repeated
New generations born
So much consolation
In feeling love so
strong
Gathered on this special
day
Looking quite their
best
A couple of such substance
Forever will be blest

Look upon their faces
Perhaps you'll see
your eyes
For every generation
The love you can't
disguise
Years ago this photo
Now goes on through
the years
The source of inspiration
Or maybe even tears
Whatever joy it carries
Or sadness you will
know
Today a special smile
you own
This love will always
show.

~
Francine
Pucillo
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Šused with permission


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